The star of the 90’s series, “Doogie Howser, MD,” Neil Patrick Harris, and chef David Burtka are everyone’s relationship goals. Both are successful in their own right. Harris is an accomplished actor, host, and Broadway star, while Burtka similarly dabbled in the profession but is now focused on his other passion of cooking. Though they are out and about now with their relationship, they didn’t use to be this loud and proud about it.
Back then, their relationship was not within the knowledge of the public despite them being already engaged. They kept their love for each other secret for five long years and only made their entire relationship official in 2009, announcing their engagement two years later. However, before their wedding, their twins were already born in 2010 through surrogacy.
Alexandra Hedison & Jodie Foster - Married Since 2014
When Jodie Foster was a guest in Late Night with David Letterman, the host irreverently implied Foster’s sexuality and how sad it would be that she could never be with a man. However, Jodie Foster thinks otherwise as she is happily married to Alexandra Hedison – a director, artist, and teacher. Meanwhile, Foster is considered as one of this generation’s “greatest actresses.”
Hedison used to be Ellen DeGeneres’ girlfriend. Foster and Hedison wed in 2014, a year after they met. Foster has two kids with her former partner, Cydney Bernard. Her eldest son is reportedly pursuing an acting career while the youngest prefers to stay out of the limelight.
Michael Turchin & Lance Bass - Married Since 2014
When Lance Bass was a member of the boy band NSYNC, little did anyone know that he would be inclined to prefer those whose gender was the same as his. Fast forward many years later, specifically in 2006, when he loudly and proudly revealed to People magazine that he is gay.
Now, Lance Bass is happily married to actor and painter Michael Turchin. The two wed in 2014 after two years of dating. They were the first same-sex couple to exchange vows on cable TV via the show, "Lance Loves Michael: The Lance Bass Wedding." And the rest, as they say, was history.
Portia De Rossi & Ellen DeGeneres - Married Since 2008
Ellen and Portia are currently the most famous LGBTQ+ couple in Hollywood. Considered as a power couple, their relationship has stood the test of time. It was 2004 when they began dating. Portia was working as a model and actress, while Ellen was doing standup comedy. After four years of being together, they tied the knot in a public wedding.
They also serve as a premier example of a relationship that is based on love – sexuality aside. Ellen has been awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom due to her active role in propagating LGBTQ+ rights. Meanwhile, Portia is a philanthropist. The couple also loves animals and works with animal rights advocates. Surely, Ellen and Portia can do no wrong.
David Burtka & Neil Patrick Harris - Married Since 2014
The star of the 90’s series, "Doogie Howser, MD," Neil Patrick Harris, and chef David Burtka are everyone’s relationship goals. Both are successful in their own right. Harris is an accomplished actor, host, and Broadway star, while Burtka similarly dabbled in the profession but is now focused on his other passion of cooking. Though they are out and about now with their relationship, they didn’t use to be this loud and proud about it.
Back then, their relationship was not within the knowledge of the public despite them being already engaged. They kept their love for each other secret for five long years and only made their entire relationship official in 2009, announcing their engagement two years later. However, before their wedding, their twins were already born in 2010 through surrogacy.
Lauren Morelli & Samira Wiley - Married Since 2017
Orange isn’t just the new black, it officially became red – Valentine’s Day red to be exact — due to the relationship it helped bloom. Lauren Morelli, the "Orange Is the New Black" writer, met Samira Wiley on set where the latter played a character named Poussey Washington. Since then, the two have been inseparable.
The two eventually became engaged in October 2016 and got married a year later. Morelli used to be married to a man but later realized she was gay while working on the set of "Orange Is the New Black." She eventually got divorced and has not looked back since.
Holland Taylor & Sarah Paulson - Together Since 2015
Just when you thought you had seen everything, here comes a relationship that is definitely one for the books. Actress Sarah Paulson (born in 1974) is in a relationship with the mother of Charlie Sheen’s character in the sitcom "Two and a Half Men" – Holland Taylor (born in 1943).
Though some may raise their eyebrows with this scenario, these two could not care less. Why would their relationship be any different from when a young woman is in a relationship with a man 30 to 40 years her senior? Age is just a number after all, as shown by this couple.
Jane Wagner & Lily Tomlin - Married Since 2013
Lily Tomlin first burst into the entertainment scene during the 1960s as a stand-up comic. She later won a slew of awards due to her performances on television, film, and Broadway. And for many decades, Tomlin has been a true icon in the LGBTQ+ community. But it was an event in 1971 that Tomlin best remembers fondly.
She met writer and would-be wife Jane Wagner when Tomlin invited Wagner to collaborate with her on an LP record album titled "And That’s the Truth." Since then, the two have been together as a couple, though there were no formal coming-out announcements. They tied the knot in December 2013.
Bethany Meyers & Nico Tortorella - Married Since 2018
Nico Tortorella, actor and star of the comedy series "Younger," is pansexual and is married to gay lifestyle and fitness entrepreneur, Bethany Meyers. The two exchanged marital vows in March 2018 in a New York City courthouse while wearing white wedding gowns. Prior to their marriage, the two had been in a relationship for more than a decade.
The couple’s unconventional wedding reflected their similarly non-traditional relationship. The two, despite being married, do not live together. However, they do see each other weekly. They communicate by using FaceTime each day. As far as we are concerned, we say do your thing, Beth and Nico!
Anthony Wayne & Kendrell Bowman - Together Since 2012
Anthony Wayne and Kendrell Bowman always seemed to be a match made in heaven. Wayne is a Broadway star who made his debut in 2011 via the musical "Anything Goes." Meanwhile, Bowman’s official title is stylist and creative image consultant to the stars.
When the two joined together, they became a force everyone had to reckon with — in a good way. The two technically engaged in doing work for "You Make Me Feel Mighty Real: A Sylvester Concert" – a successful off-Broadway musical where Wayne served as the star while Bowman was the show’s creative director and costume designer.
Georges LeBar & RuPaul - Married Since 2017
Hosts of the biggest shows on TV need to be in healthy relationships too, you know. Popular drag queen RuPaul, who is considered the United States’ most commercially successful drag queen and the man responsible for mainstreaming the art of drag, tied the knot in 2017 with his boyfriend Georges LeBar – a painter from Australia.
The couple have been together for about three decades. LeBar and RuPaul met in 1994 at New York City’s Limelight nightclub, and they have been together ever since. LeBar has a 50-acre Wyoming Ranch. RuPaul describes himself as a shapeshifting drag queen who does whatever he wants at any time.
Christine Quinn & Kim Catullo - Married Since 2012
Love doesn’t always have to happen at first sight. Just ask Kim Catullo. That is exactly what happened with her and her eventual partner. When she was asked to meet Christine Quinn, she refused to do so. But it was a matter of time before they eventually fell in love. Around the time Quinn was running for mayor, something remarkable happened.
The two tied the knot. Catullo and Quinn are now happily together seemingly forever. The two are now married and their wedding was filled with the who’s who of the city. Some of the special guests from that impressively long list included Chuck Schumer, Michael Bloomberg, and Andrew Cuomo.
Paris Barclay & Christopher Mason - Married Since 2008
Paris Barclay is a name that resonates within the realm of television, with notable contributions to acclaimed series like "CSI," "ER," and "The West Wing." However, beyond his professional achievements, Barclay cherishes the recognition of a different kind—his deep bond with his life partner, Christopher Mason.
For a few decades now, their love has endured, blossoming with unwavering strength and resilience. While Barclay's directorial prowess has garnered attention, it is in the quiet moments shared with Mason where he finds true fulfillment. Their enduring partnership serves as a testament to the power of love and commitment, a source of inspiration for others seeking enduring connections.
Jose Manuel Colon & Orlando Cruz - Married Since 2013
Who said male boxers can’t get married to men? Unfortunately, due to the culture in the sport and the backlash that they would receive, not many find love in same-gender relationships. But Orlando Cruz couldn’t care less about what people would think. Cruz is the first professional boxer to be open and out about being gay while still working as a boxer.
Since he came out, he won his first fight in October 2012. In 2013, he was one of the first inductees to the National Gay and Lesbian Sports Hall of Fame. Cruz went on to marry Jose Manuel Colon in Central Park.
Simon Doonan & Jonathan Adler - Married Since 2008
Love is timeless. So when Jonathan Adler met Simon Doonan, the two were smitten and have never parted with each other since. That was 1994. Fast forward to 2008 when the couple decided to make their relationship more solid in the legal sense. That's right folks, these two lovebirds decided to tie the knot after all those years.
Adler and Doonan got married in California via a wedding ceremony that celebrated their union. Though it took them some time to make their relationship more binding, the couple seems to believe a wedding is mere icing on the cake. And we think that's a pretty sweet way of doing it.
Patrick Leahy & T. R. Knight - Married Since 2013
Remember T.R. Knight from "Grey’s Anatomy?" You know, George O'Malley? You know, before he decided to leave the show and had his character killed off? His career was not all he imagined it to be. However, his love life surely is. Knight is in a very committed relationship with his husband Patrick Leahy.
When the two decided to commit to each other legally, Leahy and Knight had already been dating for three years. However, the couple publicly announced their relationship in 2010. They got married in 2013 and have been happily together since. Finally, a "Grey's" character who had a happy ending...sort of.
Sophie Huber & Cherry Jones - Married Since 2015
Cherry Jones has always been open about her orientation. She publicly acknowledged and thanked her 18-year architect partner Mary O’Connor back in 1995 when she accepted her Tony Award. In 2004, Jones was in a relationship with actress Sarah Paulson. After two years, Paulson and Jones publicly declared their love for each other.
However, the two eventually separated in 2009. Jones is now happily married to Sophie Huber since 2015. Huber is a Swiss-born actress, director, composer, and producer. And when you consider that Jones has recently been in shows such as "Succession" and "Poker Face," it's clear she has been doing well both professionally and personally.
Jackie Abbott & Kate McKinnon - Together Since 2017
Renowned for her comedic brilliance on "Saturday Night Live," Kate McKinnon's talent knows no bounds. However, when it comes to matters of the heart, McKinnon takes a more serious approach. She has found love in the arms of Jackie Abbott, a talented independent movie actress. Their relationship was publicly acknowledged when they graced the 2017 Emmys as a couple, reveling in each other's joy as McKinnon triumphantly accepted the award for Best Supporting Actress.
Abbott's diverse skills extend beyond acting, as she even boasts the unique role of a "part-time clown" on her resume. Together, McKinnon and Abbott create a dynamic bond that balances both laughter and profound connection, showcasing the depth of their love and shared passions.
Jason Landau & Cheyenne Jackson - Married Since 2014
Cheyenne Jackson, an actor from the series "American Horror Story," has no horror stories to tell when it comes to his relationship with entrepreneur and fellow actor Jason Landau. It was 2013 when the two publicly announced that they were an item. A year later, they tied the knot and are now living happily as a family with their twins.
Jackson is serious about being a dedicated dad. He took six months off from work just to be a full-time stay-at-home father for the twins. Since then, the family has been living happily ever after, together – and hopefully for life.
Brad Altman & George Takei - Married Since 2008
George Takei, despite being closer to 90 than 80 – and despite no longer being involved in the "Star Trek" franchise – is still best remembered as his character Hikaru Sulu. Plus there is no stopping his more than 10 million followers from continually growing.
It was only in 2005 that he publicly announced his sexuality by claiming he was in a relationship with actor and writer Brad Altman. Plus, little did anyone know that the two had already been together for 18 years at that point. The couple appeared in "The Newlywed Game" TV show a year later where they won $10,000 for their chosen charity, the Japanese American National Museum.
Brian Hargrove & David Hyde Pierce - Married Since 2008
He might be one of the most iconic brothers in the history of TV. David Hyde Pierce was Dr. Miles Crane in the long-running sitcom "Frasier." It was three years after "Frasier" ended that Pierce publicly announced he was gay. His publicist later confirmed that he was in a relationship with Brian Hargrove – a director, producer, and television writer.
Pierce publicly acknowledged Hargrove when he accepted his Tony Award for the musical Curtains. The two have been together for at least 40 years but only married in 2008 – days prior to the adoption of Proposition 8 (a law that banned same-sex marriage).
Wanda & Alex Sykes - Married Since 2008
Stand-up comedian Wanda Sykes only outed herself as gay in 2008. A mere month later after she came out, Wanda married Alex Niedbalski – a woman of French descent. They met two years earlier and were immediately in love. Prior to her marriage to Alex, Wanda was married to a man.
From 1991 to 1998, Wanda was married to Dave Hall – a record producer. However, she is living happily ever after now with Alex whom she shares a son and a daughter. Their fraternal twins were born in 2009. And Wanda has also been killing it professionally, creating her own show on Netflix — "The Upshaws."
Jerry Dixon & Mario Cantone - Married Since 2011
Mario Cantone and Jerry Dixon embarked on their journey of love during a time when societal acceptance of their sexuality was scarce. Since 1991, the couple has remained devoted to each other, despite keeping their relationship private for years. It wasn't until later that Cantone and Dixon decided to make their commitment official.
In 2011, they exchanged vows and entered into marriage, a celebration of their enduring love. Their union was officiated by Pastor Jay Bakker, marking a significant milestone in their lives. During an interview on 'The View" with host Joy Behar, Cantone openly expressed his deep affection for Dixon, describing him as a "good man" whom he cherished wholeheartedly.
Stephanie Allynne & Tig Notaro - Married Since 2015
Tig Notaro is a stand-up comedian who is serious about describing how in love she is with actress Stephanie Allynne. The two got married in 2015 and had twin boys a year after via a surrogate. Then 29-year-old Allynne did not identify as gay when she met Tig. But she eventually realized that maybe she wasn’t straight at all.
Allynne described her experience as self-recognition. Though she used to date men, she hasn’t been in a serious long-term relationship with one. It was when she met Tig that she realized she wasn’t at all in love with men. However, it was through Tig when she exclaimed, “Oh my god, I am fully in love with this person.”
Guillermo Díaz and His Partner - Together Since 2005
Some people prefer to keep their privacy to themselves rather than allow it to be out in the open. They treasure their private time and refrain from sharing information about themselves. It's a pretty logical idea, right? And Guillermo Diaz is a pretty good case study for this idea – the popular star of the series "Scandal."
Diaz has professed that he is indeed gay, and openly too. He also has been enjoying a committed relationship with a significant other that he has not named or identified – or would even like to give a clue of. But love is allowing them to be so let them be.
Scott Gill & John Barrowman - Married Since 2013
It was 1993 when John Barrowman, a writer, singer, actor, and presenter of Scottish descent, watched a play and fell in love with one of the actors. When Barrowman saw Scott Gill on stage, it was love at first sight. The couple was so smitten with each other, that they decided to enter a civil partnership to solidify their union.
That was 2006. Seven years later, the two felt the need to tie the knot and so they did. The two have been legally married since. And Barrowman has had a pretty amazing time in his career, especially in the U.K., hosting a range of shows and even starring in his own — "Torchwood."
Blue Hamilton & Matt Dallas - Married Since 2015
If you remember the series "Kyle XY," you probably remember the actor who played him - Matt Dallas. He is now happily married to music publishing executive Blue Hamilton. The two announced their engagement in 2013 via Twitter. They tied the knot two years later.
In the same year, the couple adopted Crow – their two-year-old son. Having a child helped Dallas change his priorities. He admitted he used to be selfish, but now, he considers his children in every decision he makes. He states that as a couple, they now work together as a team in ways they never used to before.
Thom Browne & Andrew Bolton - Together Since 2011
The story of Thom Browne and Andrew Bolton exemplifies the profound connection that can blossom when two individuals intertwine their passions. Their shared journey serves as a testament to the transformative power of love when minds and souls unite as one.
Thom Browne, a renowned fashion designer, crafted elegant dresses for former First Lady Michelle Obama in 2013, showcasing his exceptional talent. Along the way, Browne formed a partnership with Andrew Bolton, a fellow fashion designer, giving birth to a collaboration that produced even more stunning designs. As their creative endeavors evolved, so did their bond, transcending mere professional responsibilities.
Rashad Burgess & Bishop OC Allen - Together Since 1999
Bishop OC Allen and First Gentleman Rashad Burgess epitomize a remarkable couple united by a shared passion to cultivate inclusivity and realization of their vision. Together, they shepherd an Atlanta church that embraces and welcomes people from all walks of life. At Vision Church, diversity is celebrated, with open arms extended to individuals of all genders, sexual orientations, preferences, races, and backgrounds.
Allen and Burgess tirelessly champion and embody equality, fostering a community that upholds the values of acceptance and understanding. Their commitment to these principles extends beyond their professional endeavors; as a loving couple, they have joyfully built a marriage filled with happiness and are blessed with two children.
Jahil Fisher & Lee Daniels - Together Since 2015
If you didn't already know, Lee Daniels is the producer of the series "Empire." You know, the show that stars the likes of Terrence Howard, Taraji P. Henson, and a wide range of other great actors. Despite his busy schedule, he managed to start a relationship with Jahil Fisher, a freelance stylist.
Though they have yet to officially tie the knot, the two have been together for more than a decade. Daniels has long been open about his orientation. However, he explained that he prefers to be called sexually fluid than gay – the same way "Empire" actor Jussie Smollett also refers to himself as sexually fluid.
Jaymes Vaughan & Jonathan Bennett - Married Since 2022
From the moment actor Jonathan Bennett crossed paths with television host Jaymes Vaughan, their connection sparked an undeniable flame that left them giddy with affection. Unable to contain their overwhelming joy, the couple embraced the modern era of social media to express their love openly.
Like giddy teenagers, Bennett and Vaughan boldly declared their feelings for each other through heartfelt posts shared on their respective social media platforms. In a digital era where the virtual realm often reflects the realities of our lives, this public display of affection served as an announcement, making their blossoming relationship official in the eyes of their adoring followers.
Nancy Locke & Meredith Baxter - Married Since 2013
Meredith Baxter is popular thanks to her memorable roles in the sitcom "Family Ties." Talented as she is, her performances helped her earn five Emmy nominations. However, she was not always out. Baxter used to be married to a man and was so three times.
However, when she realized that she was indeed gay, she loudly and proudly exclaimed it back in 2009. Prior to her announcement though, she was in a relationship with a general contractor named Nancy Locke back in 2005. Eight years later, the couple tied the knot. We'd like to think that maybe fourth time's a charm for Meredith.
Garry Kief & Barry Manilow - Married Since 2014
Barry Manilow will always be known as one of the greatest American singers and songwriters who ever lived. For five decades, he has created memorable hits. Though he got married to manager Garry Kief in 2014 and has been with him since 1978, Manilow used to be in a relationship with a woman – and so did Gary.
Manilow was first married to Susan Deixler – his high school sweetheart – for two years before their marriage was ultimately annulled in 1966. Gary was also married and had a daughter named Kristen who was born in 1976. Manilow and Kief made their relationship official in their Palm Springs estate via a wedding attended by friends and family.
Anton Gutierrez & Bob Harper - Together Since 2017
Fans of the reality series "The Biggest Loser" know the famous trainer Bob Harper. Harper had worked hard to keep his orientation under wraps, but in 2014, the famous trainer came forward with the truth. His public outing was prompted by a contestant who was having difficulty coming out to his family.
All ended well and the episode helped the contestant and Harper reveal their true selves to the public. Just a year later, Harper met the love of his life, set decorator, Anton Gutierrez. The two tied the knot and have been happy and living a great life together ever since.
Kirven & Antonio Douthit-Boyd - Together Since 2005
This list will never run out of couples whose shared passions caused them to stay together, happily ever after. Antonio Douthit-Boyd, as well as Kirven Douthit, are dancers who have an interest in moving their bodies to the beat of the music.
Their love for dance was evident when they met at the Alvin Ailey Dance Company. Since then, the two decided to make their union more solid by tying the knot. Now, they do not tire of traveling the world to dance their hearts away. They also work together at COCA - The Center of Creative Arts, located in St. Louis, Missouri.
Tom Ford & Richard Buckley - Married Since 2014
According to fashion designer Tom Ford, it was love at first sight when he met fashion journalist Richard Buckley. The two met by sharing an elevator ride for ten floors. By the last floor, Ford felt Buckley was the one. That was 1986, fast forward to today and the two are still together, happily ever after.
The couple got married this 2014 and the two had a son named Alexander John Buckley Ford. According to Ford, the secret to their relationship was mutual respect. Plus, having a mutually good heart and soul helped a lot. Sadly though, Buckley passed away in 2021 after a long illness.
Ryan Corvaia & Maulik Pancholy - Married Since 2014
Maulik, known for his role in the hit show "30 Rock," fearlessly embraced his true self in 2013 when he openly shared his sexuality with the world. Simultaneously, he proudly professed his deep love for Ryan Corvaia, a talented chef and caterer with whom Maulik had been in a committed relationship for an impressive nine years.
Their love stood as an unwavering pillar, leading them to embark on a momentous journey that culminated in a dreamlike wedding. In 2014, amidst the grandeur and enchantment of the Taj Mahal in India, Maulik and Ryan exchanged vows, their union an ode to romance and devotion.
Hugo Redwood & Denis O’Hare - Married Since 2011
Denis O’Hare is a multi-talented actor. He has won a slew of awards due to his excellent performance. Besides acting, O’Hare is making sure he achieves a decent work-life balance. His love life is keeping him busy thanks to him being married to Hugo Redwood – a popular designer.
In order to complete the family, Redwood and O’Hare decided to adopt a son. Now, their family is growing. As parents, both are doing their best to be the best fathers for their little Declan, whom they adopted in 2012. In terms of acting, O'Hare is in the cast for the prequel to "A Quiet Place."
Rainer Andreesen & Victor Garber - Married Since 2015
Victor Garber, the actor who has left audiences in awe with his performances in renowned productions like "Godspell," "Titanic," and "Sweeney Todd," surprised many when he fearlessly came out and publicly expressed his pride. Despite his long and illustrious career, it wasn't until 2012 that Garber chose to reveal his sexual orientation, a personal milestone celebrated by his fans and supporters.
In a delightful turn of events, three years later, Garber's Instagram account became flooded with messages of love and congratulations. The reason behind the outpouring of joy was Garber's heartwarming announcement of his marriage to Rainier Andreesen, a distinguished model.
John DeLuca & Rob Marshall - Together Since 1982
It was on Broadway when couple Rob Marshall and John DeLuca met. That was 1982. Both were actors trying to audition for a coveted role in a musical titled "Boogie-Woogie Rumble of a Dream Deferred." Their audition was fortunately successful. Both actors got the part they wanted.
Plus, the better part of the story was that the two of them fell in love with each other – the rest was history. Who doesn’t want a similar experience? Love can indeed sprout in the most unexpected places. Fast forward 40+ years and the couple are as madly in love with each other as they were back when they first met.
David Miller & Ryan Murphy - Married Since 2012
There is no denying that "Glee" fans were over the moon when they learned that Ryan Murphy was getting married. The man behind hit shows such as "American Horror Story," "Nip/Tuck," and "American Crime Story" would also see success in the love department - specifically with his partner David Miller.
The two lovebirds had already been close friends for 15 special years before finally taking things to the next level in 2010 by getting engaged. They tied the knot two years later and it was the perfect building blocks for David and Ryan to start their family together. Around the same time, the happy couple welcomed their first son, Logan Phineas, via surrogacy. And a second son by the name of Ford, entered their lives just a couple of years later! And eventually, the couple made it a triple threat, with a third son.
Simon Halls & Matt Bomer - Married Since 2011
Many people have eloped and had secret weddings in the history of humanity. But secret marriages? Not so much. And yet, that's what Simon Halls and Matt Bomer more than a decade though, tying the knot under extremely hush-hush conditions. For three long years, the newlyweds kept their holy matrimony a secret from the public.
They did everything in their power to ensure that no one knew about their nuptials. In fact, only the small group of family and closest friends who were in attendance at the ceremony were in on it! But as soon as the cat was out of the bag, the couple never looked back.
Paul Maher & Sean Maher - Married Since 2016
Fans of the series, "Firefly," as well as "Serenity," got the surprise of their lives when its star Sean Maher came out back in 2011. Still, being able to come out was an event Maher had to do for his own peace of mind, and it led him down a path to finding true love.
Fast forward to five years later when Sean and Paul were so happy being in a relationship they decided to wed. The couple eventually got married in 2016. Now, Sean and Paul are raising a son and daughter. Specifically, Sean decided to be a stay-at-home father for two whole years.
Dustin Lance Black & Tom Daley - Married Since 2017
It's no secret that Tom Daley has been one of the heroes of British sports over the last decade or so. The Olympic diver has been a true poster boy for the LGBTQ+ sports community. And just like anyone else, he deserves love. The couple have been an item for more than a decade and announced their engagement just two years into their relationship.
Heck, they got engaged in a countryside castle in Devon, England! After three blissful years of early marriage, the couple welcomed their first son in the world, Robert Ray. And five years later, their second son came along in the Spring of 2023.
Jeffrey Richman & John Benjamin Hickey - Together Since 2003
It makes perfect sense that one of "Modern Family's" producers and writers would have his very own "modern family." Jeffrey Richman has been deeply in love with actor John Benjamin Hickey for so long that it's hard to believe. They first locked eyes in 2003 and haven't been able to keep their eyes off each other ever since.
Fans of the show are championing Richman and his partner to start a family of their own. The two have developed a reputation as seasoned pros in their respective fields. So they have built the foundation to not only have a healthy relationship with one another - but to also start a family together. Watch this space, we still expect big things from these two.
Justin Mikita & Jesse Tyler Ferguson - Married Since 2012
Back in 2012, one of the stars of "Modern Family" finally decided to start his very own too! Jesse Tyler Ferguson is renowned for his charming relationship with on-screen partner Eric Stonestreet. But in real life, Ferguson's relationship with Justin Mikita is just as strong, if not stronger.
Back in 2012, the two decided to get engaged! However, just like their non-traditional wedding, the couple opted to receive gifts in a similarly unconventional way. They asked their wedding guests to instead donate to the charity “Tie the Knot” — their chosen marriage equality charity. And since then, the couple have even had two kids, really adding to that modern family of theirs. We're all for it.
Linda Wallem & Melissa Etheridge - Married Since 2014
Guitarist and singer Melissa Etheridge tied the knot with actress and producer Linda Wallem in 2014, a mere two days after the couple each turned 53 years old. Prior to their wedding, the two have been best of friends. It was Wallem whom Etheridge called when she became a single mother with four kids to care for.
Eventually, the two developed a more intimate relationship that went beyond friendship. It began when the would-be-couple was helping each other fulfill the day-to-day motherly duties of feeding the kids. Etheridge decided to legalize their relationship and get the benefits of being legally married – and so they did. They have since been living happily together, highly likely ever after.
Dan Bucatinsky & Don Roos - Married Since 2008
It is not only because Don Roos and Dan Bucatinsky have similar-sounding first names that make them look as if they are perfectly made for each other, Don and Dan are genuinely in love. Bucatinsky is a popular actor, producer, and writer.
Meanwhile, Roos is a screenwriter. Being in the same business helped them understand the demands of each other’s professions. This may be the reason why they have been together for so long. The two met in 1992 and later got married in 2008. Theirs is a happy family as they now have two kids, Jonah and Eliza.
Will Sherrod & Chris Colfer - Together Since 2013
Chris Colfer, known for his role as Kurt Hummel on "Glee," maintained a low-key relationship with Will Sherrod, which they chose to keep private. Despite the secrecy, their love for one another remained steadfast. Candid pictures capturing their moments of pure joy and togetherness served as undeniable evidence of their deep affection.
Colfer's radiant happiness in the presence of his partner, Sherrod, is evident, and it undoubtedly fueled his exceptional portrayal of Kurt Hummel on-screen. His emotional fulfillment in their relationship seemingly translated into a remarkable performance, adding an extra layer of authenticity and depth to his character. Behind the scenes, the support and love between Colfer and Sherrod contributed to both their personal happiness and professional success.
Jeremiah Brent & Nate Berkus - Married Since 2014
Nate Berkus and Jeremiah Brent are designers who are so in love that describing their relationship as made for each other would be an understatement. They dated for an entire year before they decided to become engaged in 2013. A year later, the two got married in a Buddhist-Jewish ceremony. Plus, it was the same year their daughter was born.
Berkus and Brent, both host the TLC show "Nate & Jeremiah by Design," are hoping to promote surrogacy. This process has helped them welcome another child into their home. The couple recently had a son named Oskar Brent-Berkus via a surrogate.
Todd Spiewak & Jim Parsons - Married Since 2017
Jim Parson has come a long way over the last few decades. It was 15 years before "The Big Bang Theory" star, best known for playing Sheldon, and his now-husband Todd Spiewak decided to tie the knot. According to Parsons, he didn’t think much of the wedding thing but decided to go ahead with it to “legalize this thing."
The two wed in May 2017 in New York City’s Rainbow Room. Prior to the wedding, Parsons never felt the need to get married as he was fine staying as they are. He likened the experience of being together with Spiewak as ‘close to being with God.'
Jamison Hebert & Alec Mapa - Married Since 2008
Alec Mapa and Jamison Hebert, who have cherished their love for many years, were constantly met with inquiries about taking their commitment to the next level. Finally, in 2008, they answered those lingering questions. Alec Mapa and Jamison Hebert joyfully exchanged vows, solidifying their relationship in a legally binding marriage.
With their union now recognized and celebrated, the couple took another significant step in building their family. They welcomed an adopted son, bringing immeasurable joy and completeness to their lives. As the future unfolds, the possibility of expanding their family further through another adoption remains an open question, awaiting the perfect time to reveal itself.
Bridgett Casteen & Dot Marie Jones - Married Since 2013
If the character of Coach Bestie in the series "Glee" scared you, relax a little. The actress who portrayed that role is nothing but nice. Though she was a 15-time world arm-wrestling champion, she is sweet. When Dot Marie Jones met Bridgett Casteen in 2010, the two became an item and later became engaged a mere three years later.
Dot proposed to Casteen on Anaheim Gay Days. Recently, Casteen was hospitalized due to a stroke caused by a hole in her heart that needed to be surgically covered. Casteen is well now and the couple have been living happily together.
Patrick D. Abner & Thomas Roberts - Married Since 2012
Thomas Roberts would not let anything get in his way when it came to having a relationship with the love of his life. Roberts met Patrick D. Abner back in 2000, and the two have been inseparable ever since. But being together wasn’t enough for the couple.
The two wanted to not just be together, they wanted to be publicly acknowledged by the government. Fortunately, the city of New York decided to make legal the process of same-sex marriage. Roberts and Abner found themselves on Gansevoort Park Avenue’s rooftop to tie the knot back in 2012. The two have since been living happily ever after.
Brad Goreski & Gary Janetti - Engaged Since 2014
Gary Janetti and Brad Goreski, true believers in the power of long-term relationships, have built a lasting bond that has endured for over a decade — 13 years to be exact. Recognizing the strength and significance of their connection, the couple made a joint decision to take their commitment to the next level.
In December 2014, Goreski and Janetti announced their engagement, symbolizing their intention to solidify their partnership. While they have not yet tied the knot, the couple remains dedicated to nurturing and maintaining their relationship. Balancing their time between bustling New York City and vibrant Los Angeles, they have cultivated a lifestyle that allows them to prioritize their love while also tending to their shared responsibilities, including the care of their beloved dog.
Andy Mientus & Michael Arden - Married Since 2016
Michael Arden and Andy Mientus are a couple that could not even be any cuter if they tried. The two met and began to date in 2010. They were so smitten with each other that they stuck together for 6 years. The couple eventually wanted to solidify their relationship and take things to the next level.
Little did the two know that one was already planning to propose to another. While Arden was getting ready to prepare to pop the question, Mientus was doing the same. The couple got married in 2016 and has since been living happily ever after.
Lauren Blitzer & Chely Wright - Married Since 2011
Country music singer Chely Wright came out as gay – one of the first country music stars who did – back in 2010 to help erase the stigma of bullying and hate crimes toward members of the LGBTQ community. She also publicly professed the damage caused to her psyche by “lying” about her sexuality and “hiding” from it. A year later after she came out, she was engaged to Lauren Blitzer – an advocate of LGBTQ rights.
The two eventually got married in 2011 in a Connecticut country estate. The event was officiated by a reverend and rabbi. Two years after their wedding, Chely gave birth to identical twins George Samuel and Everett Joseph.
Bjorn Amelan & Bill T. Jones - Together Since 1993
Bill T. Jones and Bjorn Amelan, both having faced moments of despair and uncertainty in their search for love, found themselves on the brink of losing hope. However, life had its own plans, and destiny had a delightful surprise in store for them. When Jones and Amelan crossed paths, they were in for a remarkable experience.
Against all odds, the two extraordinary individuals fell deeply in love, defying the notion that love is predictable or easily explained. Their enduring relationship stands as a testament to the mysterious nature of love itself, with its ability to bring unexpected joy and delight into one's life.
Quincy & Deondray Gossfield - Married Since 2014
Many couples are formed because of a shared passion they have, and the same can definitely be said for Quincy and Deondray Gossfield. Having worked together in the independent film circuit and on TV too, they have had much joy together both on a professional level and on a romantic level.
Quincy and Deondray have been through it all over the last few decades. And their blossoming love reached an absolute peak in 2014. During the Grammy Awards of that year, the iconic rapper Queen Latifah officiated the couple's marriage in front of a large audience while Macklemore performed his hit song "Same Love."
Jorn Weisbrodt & Rufus Wainwright - Married Since 2012
It's not universally known about, but there is such arrangement in relationships known as a "parenting partnership." Celebrity couple Rufus Wainright and Jorn Weisbrodt have had a lot of joy engaging in this kind of arrangement. The singer and German arts administrator have been co-parenting with their close friend Lorca Cohen, raising their daughter in a triple setup.
While it's more normal for a couple to raise their child or for an individual to be a single parent, this arrangement has suited Rufus and Jorn for a long time. They also believed that it was important for their child to have a female figure in their lives during their formative years.
Heather Turman & Heather Matarazzo - Married Since 2018
Known for key roles in flicks such as "The Princess Diaries," Heather Matarazzo takes her personal life just as seriously as her professional one. Even being with comedian Heather Turman, Matarazzo knows that being in love is no laughing matter. The exact duration of their relationship remains undisclosed, but their bond continues to flourish.
In a beautiful display of love and devotion, Matarazzo took the initiative and proposed to Turman in January 2018. Their joyous union as a married couple came to fruition just ten months later, solidifying their commitment to one another. Matarazzo has always been open and transparent about her sexual orientation, with her publicist proudly announcing her previous relationships.
Christine Marinoni & Cynthia Nixon - Married Since 2012
"Sex and the City" star Cynthia Nixon used to be married to a man. She was in a relationship with Danny Mozes, a schoolteacher, from 1998 to 2003 – and even had kids with him. But a year later after their split, Nixon met and began dating Christine Marinoni – an education activist.
Five years after Nixon and Marinoni met, the two became engaged in 2009. The couple eventually exchanged vows in 2012 in New York. Nixon and Marinoni officially became a family in 2011 when the latter gave birth to a son. Nixon’s eldest son from her previous relationship is transgender.
Amber Laign & Robin Roberts - Together Since 2005
Robin Roberts, the host of ABC’s "Good Morning America," didn’t announce her sexuality until December 2013. However, her co-workers and friends have long known about her preference long before. At the same time of her announcement, Roberts similarly declared that she was in a relationship with massage therapist Amber Laign since 2005.
In 2015, Roberts was one of 31 LGBT History Month Icons according to the Equality Forum. She received a Peabody Award in 2012 as well as an Arthur Ashe Courage Award from ESPN in 2013 due to her public promotion of bone marrow donations, having had bone marrow disease herself.
Sean Eldridge & Chris Hughes - Married Since 2012
Chris Hughes, known for his entrepreneurial endeavors and role as a spokesperson for Facebook, leads a multifaceted life that extends beyond his professional responsibilities. At the heart of it all is his profound love and commitment to his husband, Sean Eldridge, a prominent political activist. In 2012, Hughes and Eldridge took a significant step in solidifying their bond by exchanging vows and tying the knot.
Despite their demanding schedules and numerous commitments, they prioritize nurturing and caring for each other in the best way possible. While Eldridge serves as the President of Stand-Up America, a progressive advocacy community, Hughes wholeheartedly supports his husband's endeavors, further strengthening their shared values and commitment to making a positive impact in the world.
Grant Shaffer & Alan Cumming - Married Since 2012
Character actor and theatre thespian Alan Cumming has been tearing up the big screen, small screen, and stage for years now. He is also happily married to graphic artist Grant Shaffer since 2012. They had been dating for two years prior to them entering a civil partnership in 2007. The couple resides in New York City with their two furry kids – Leon and Honey.
Shaffer has illustrated for magazines such as "The New Yorker" as well as for newspapers. His "30 Kinds of Passion" comic series was in the 2008 edition of the Best American Comics Guide. He also did storyboard work for movies and music videos.
Terez Mychelle & Monifah Carter - Married Since 2014
Monifah Carter is an R&B star who is loud and proud about being gay. She is one of the few African-American gay celebrities currently seen on reality television. She is also proud of her relationship with Terez Mychelle – the two have been in a long-term relationship.
Eventually, the couple decided to get married in April 2014. In fact, they tied the knot on the show "R&B Divas: Atlanta." Prior to their marriage, the couple prioritized their feelings more than the process it took to legally or technically solidify their union. They believed that being committed to each other was more important.
Lance Lepere & Michael Kors - Married Since 2011
Fashion designer Michael Kors has known Lance Lepere since 1990 as the latter was an intern in Kors’ company. But a business trip to Paris was a game changer as both discovered they had the same tastes – they prefer to play with the idea of Americana, in the fashion sense of the word.
Since then, the two became engaged in 2011 and were later married the same year. The venue for their union was Southampton, New York, specifically on Dune Beach. Kors expressed that marrying someone on a beach while barefoot is more than he could ever dream of. And we totally understand that.
Harley Rodriguez & Jonathan Knight - Married Since 2022
New Kids On The Block singer, Jonathan Knight, could not help but gush about his boyfriend Harley Rodriguez in a 2016 episode of Jenny McCarthy’s Sirius radio show. Knight described how being in Africa helped him pop the question considering that their parents were there and making it official felt natural.
The two ended up setting a date for the wedding. The couple had planned to tie the knot in 2018 after being together since 2008. The couple was part of the 26th season of "The Amazing Race" where they placed ninth in the competition series. It is confirmed that they have been married since 2022.
David Furnish & Elton John - Married Since 2014
Singer Elton John has undoubtedly been one of the most iconic members of the LGBTQ+ community over the last 50 years. He has been in a long-term relationship with his director husband David Furnish since 1993 – the same year they met. They have been together since then but eventually solidified their relationship when they decided to unite via a civil partnership in 2005.
When England and Wales legalized same-sex marriage, the couple wasted no time tying the knot. They eventually got married on December 21, 2014. Prior to their wedding, their first child was born via surrogate in 2010, while their second son followed three years later.
Dylan Meyer & Kristen Stewart - Engaged Since 2021
The speculation surrounding Kristen Stewart's past relationship with her "Twilight" co-star Robert Pattinson being a publicity stunt to boost ticket sales may forever remain a mystery. Given Stewart's openly identified sexual orientation, some found it difficult to comprehend how she could develop romantic feelings for Pattinson. However, time has passed, and the details of their past romance have become irrelevant in the grand scheme of things.
Moving forward, Stewart found love with Stella Maxwell, an Irish model who had earned the prestigious title of Victoria's Secret Angel. This stunning couple exuded an undeniable charm, captivating admirers with their beauty and magnetic presence. However, they have since broken up, and Stewart has been engaged to screenwriter Dylan Meyer since November 2021.
Eboni Nichols & Queen Latifah - Together Since 2013
There is no denying that Queen Latifah has been a real trailblazer over the last 30 years, both in the hip-hop world and the LGBTQ community. And love needs work, but it doesn’t have to make you work too hard. Queen Latifah learned that the hard way when she partnered with her personal trainer, Jeanette Jenkins.
But it seemed to be too hard for both that it went through a few struggles. The two began to date in 2002. They loved each other so much that they decided to be engaged in 2008. Alas, it seems they were not meant to be. The two eventually broke up in 2014. Thankfully though, Latifah has been with Eboni Nichols for more than a decade.
Luke Evans & Fran Tomas - Together Since 2021
Luke Evans has experienced the ups and downs of an on-again, off-again relationship, which may appear tumultuous from the outside. However, every couple has their own unique dynamics and reasons behind their choices. For a while – the Welsh actor looked absolutely perfect alongside Jon Kortajarena.
For two years, the couple seemed to be destined for great things together. However, they ultimately decided to go their separate ways in 2022. Thankfully though, love struck twice for Evans, who eventually started dating Fran Thomas in 2021. It just goes to show that love will find its way to those worthy of it when the time is right.
Miranda Maday & Raven-Symoné - Married Since 2020
Remember Raven-Symone in "Sesame Street" as well as in "The Cosby Show?" She is now grown up and has even had her own show "That's So Raven!" On a personal level, she was in a relationship with singer, actress, and model AzMarie Livingston. The two were working on the Fox series "Empire" as guest stars.
However, after their three-year relationship, the two split in 2015. Symone has stated she did not want to be labeled by her sexuality and prefers to be called a human who loves another human. Since then, she has formed a relationship with social media manager Miranda Maday, and the couple even tied the knot in 2020.
Jennifer Cheyne & Jane Lynch - Married Since 2021
"Glee" star and all-around actress Jane Lynch was so in love with clinical psychologist Lara Embry that they tied the knot in May 2010. The two met during a fundraiser in San Francisco a year before. But they say that all good things come to an end, and sadly, the two eventually divorced in 2014.
Lynch cited the reason for the divorce as irreconcilable differences. She also found the divorce process difficult as the ex-couple stated they still care deeply for each other. Thankfully though, Lynch has since been able to move on and has found love once again, having been married to Jennifer Cheyne since 2021.
Deshanna Minuto & Jillian Michaels - Married Since 2022
You may be familiar with Jillian Michaels thanks to her appearance in the reality show, "The Biggest Loser." However, it was in her own reality show on the E! Channel titled "Just Jillian" where she was seen proposing to her talent manager Heidi Rhoades.
That was 2011, fast forward nine years later, and feel free to be shocked when Michaels announced she and Rhoades had split. However, the two have good things to say to each other. In 2018, Michaels started a relationship with Deshanna Marie Minuto, a respected fashion designer. They got engaged in 2021 and tied the knot the following year.
Beth Ditto & Ted Kwo - Together Since 2018
No one can stop love from happening. It's just a natural reflex that can happen at any given time. Not even Cupid or the courts can halt two people from falling in love. Beth Ditto and her ex Kristin Ogata showed to the world how true this statement was by tying the knot in Hawaii via a wedding ceremony, that was unofficial.
It was a truly incredible, romantic occasion for everyone involved. 17 months later, they decided to go to Oregon to formally acknowledge their union thanks to the same-sex laws in the state. Since then though, the couple have parted ways, and Ditto has been with transgender man Ted Kwo since 2018.
Richert John Frederickson Schnorr & B.D. Wong - Married Since 2018
American actor B.D. Wong is popular for his character in the series "Law & Order: Special Victims Unit." He also had a role in the "Jurassic Park" franchise. He is also an accomplished theatre actor having won a Tony for his performance in "M. Butterfly." Wong has long been openly gay. His relationship with talent agent Richie Jackson began as early as 1988.
In 2000, the couple had twins, one of whom unfortunately died ninety minutes after birth. Sadly, the couple split in 2004 but continue to co-parent for the sake of their son. Wong recently married his partner whom he had previously been dating for eight years, Richert John Frederickson Schnorr.
Cherelle Watson & Brittney Griner - Married Since 2019
Brittney Griner, the talented WNBA star, experienced a whirlwind marriage to fellow basketball player Glory Johnson that lasted a mere 28 days. Troubles in their relationship had already surfaced three weeks prior to their wedding when both Griner and Johnson were arrested for domestic issues.
Since then, Griner has embarked on a new chapter in her life, now in a relationship with Christopher Fry, a man who resides near her hometown. On the other hand, Johnson has taken on the role of caring for the twins she conceived through the use of donor sperm during her time with Griner. As their lives continue to evolve separately, the impact of their past relationship remains a significant part of their personal journeys.
Tuc Watkins & Andrew Rannells - Together Since 2019
They say the couple who do the same things together, stay together. This statement at least implies that shared passions are an important key in keeping one’s relationship alive. And this seemed to be the case for Andrew Rannells and Mike Doyle - for a while at least.
After all, the two are both actors. Being in the same industry helped them to stay together, but they ultimately went their separate ways in 2018. Since then, Rannells has found love again and has been with fellow actor Tuc Watkins since 2019. It might not be the longest-running relationship on this list but we have hope that it will last.
Tan & Rob France - Married Since 2007
If you have watched the Netflix reality series “Queer Eye,” then you know exactly who Tan France is. This guy is one of the highlights of that show and brings class wherever he goes. So it makes perfect sense that he got himself a husband who is just as classy as him.
Tan first met Rob on a dating app more than a decade ago. Despite coming from Muslim and Mormon backgrounds, respectively, the two hit it off instantly. Actually, the fact they both didn’t drink or smoke brought them closer together. In 2007, the couple tied the knot and since then, they have had two beautiful children, both via surrogate.
Brandi Carlile & Catherine Shepherd - Married Since 2012
Amazingly, this LGBTQ+ couple heard each other’s voices before they even saw each other’s faces. Singer-songwriter Brandi Carlile recalled the events that led up to meeting the love of her life, Catherine Shepherd. Apparently, the two actually spoke on the phone an entire year before they even met.
Shepherd was trying to donate Beatles memorabilia to the Fight the Fear campaign via Paul McCartney’s charity. Fast forward a year, and they immediately hit it off after meeting in person. "Every time I talked to her over the phone, I thought I was talking to somebody who was like 65 years old,” Carlile said. “We met backstage in New York, and we were both like 27." It only took two years for them to tie the knot.